In Hebrews 12:14-16 the writer warns us about a “root of bitterness”. The thing about roots is that they usually produce fruits. In this case, defilement, immorality and unwise decisions can be the result of letting the roots grow unchecked.
However, the issue is really the seeds. Most people do not plant these seeds in their heart. That is the work of the enemy. Someone is hurt by another, suffering, adversity, disappointment…so many opportunities for seeds of bitterness to be scattered in our lives. The question is, “Will we allow the seeds to become roots?”
In verse 15, we are told that we should make sure we do not fail the grace of God. This means that we should never miss an opportunity to rely on grace. We do not have control over which bitter seeds are sown in our heart, but it is our choice as to whether or not we allow it to grow.
One wise person said it this way, “What happened is not your fault, but it is your problem.”
How do we apply grace to these “seedy” situations?
We trust God and obey His word. Actions such as forgiveness, repentance, faith, showing kindness, etc., can all help kill those seeds. When that happens, the Holy Spirit raises a beautiful garden in our life instead of those pesky roots of bitterness.
This is not always easy to do. As humans, our most basic instinct is self-preservation. When someone hurts us, we naturally want to hold that against them, if for no other reason than it being a defensive posture. Instead, we should follow the example of Jesus who endured the cross for the joy that was set before Him (verse 2).
So, happy gardening and don’t let those bitter seeds sprout!